i'm going to blog about how
communication isn't always a good thing.
take this girl, let's say, P. and a guy, L perhaps.
P's friends pointed out that they think L likes her. then one of her friends talked to L and see if L really does like P. then one fine day, when L and P were alone, L decided to have that "talk". and so they did. and the day after, things were quite okay. P had a lot to say about the matter that they had that "talk" a few times. after a few of these "talks", the relationship between both of them distant. L was pulling away from P.
you see, what P is trying to do is to
reach out to L and communicate. but in the end, L pulled away from the "thing" they had and left P upset.
so, doesn't this show that sometimes, communication isn't all that great. which is why some people just don't want to "talk about it" or "settle this" as they fear that when you have this "talk", things might not turn out well and things just gets worst.
so,
think carefully if you really want to "talk" about an issue.
and think real hard coz what you say kinda sorta determines what happens in the future.
posted by Dila Ariff @ 2:14 AM